How often do you see a child under age 21 drinking in public? Probably not that often any more. Bartenders are generally instructed to check ID on anyone who looks under 40. Party stores are monitored for sales of alcohol to minors and can lose their licenses after being caught a few times.
How often do you see a child under 18 smoking? Oh, all the time, right? Is it legal? Hm. No. But no one does anything about it, do they? There is some smoke and saber rattling regarding sales to minors, but in general, any teenager or even preteen can get their hands on cigarettes and can smoke in public. I used to see grade schoolers smoking at bus stops on my way to work. Surely police saw them also. No one cares enough to enforce that law. Smoking while driving? Not so much an issue as drunk driving. That is a good justification for letting children slowly kill themselves.
How about stealing? Not so much a problem, is it? All you have to do is get someone's credit card information and have a good time. What are the chances that anyone will follow through on prosecution? Small charges, who cares? After a few billion, someone should. I am not researching the stats, but use your imagination.
In April or May my account number was changed on one of my credit cards. I called to find out why, and I was told they are making some change or another in their system and I should not be concerned. I was leaving on a trip, so I was concerned, but the new card came in time for me to take it with me. I shredded the old card into small pieces, and separated them into separate containers before tossing. Some pieces went in my pocket and were dumped in a trash container at a mall or gas station. I am careful with these things.
Imagine my surprise when I checked my balance online today on an account and found two charges that I didn't authorize - on the old account number. One was to blockbuster.com and one was to napster. I called my credit card company, wasting a half hour. They told me to call the two companies. So, I did that, wasting another hour or so. Neither would remove the charges from my account, although they were able to verify that they were fraudulent. I had to call the credit card company again, and at that time found out that someone had also charged something to iTunes to my account. Another hour or so of being transferred and having explanations pass back and forth. I also heard that email accounts were opened by "me."
Bottom line? Nothing is going to happen to the children who charged their music on my account. I am sure they did it on other people's accounts too. Why not? It's not any more risky to them than smoking in public. No one really cares. Everyone does it. I assume it's children based on what was charged. The amounts for each were small.
These are brave children. Two of the charges were made a week apart.
No one is going to do anything about it.
Sure, the charges are removed from my account now. But do you ever think about where they go? I do.
I don't know the stats here either, but my guess is we probably pay 50% more for goods than necessary, due to illegal activities like this. Or employee theft. Or bills just never paid. And so on.
Those of us who pay for what we buy are kind of stupid, aren't we?
Conspicuous consumption. At it's finest. If you can't afford it, buy it anyway. You deserve it, right?
Why?
So the rest of the people can pay for it for you?
Everyone can have a setback at times. These times are hard, too. But some people make it a lifestyle to see how much they can get without ever even intending on paying for it.
I do not know how they sleep at night.
They keep me awake sometimes.
8 comments:
Oh girl you hit a sore spot on this one. What a mess our world has become. I think a lot of it is parents and grandparent just give them things to shut them up. I saw a little boy throwing a fit for an umbrella recently. It wasn't even raining and so what if it had been? The business lady grandmother gave her granddaughter $2.00 and told her to go see what she could buy for that and then she bragged about how they had just cleaned out their toy box. What does this have to do with anything? Kids aren't taught the ten commandments anymore. Sorry I could rant for hours. Paula
RIGHT ON!!!! some how we have become the irresponsible country...a bunch spoiled rotten brats!
now I need to get off and argue with my periodontists office (again!!!), office help says she re-submitted to my insurance company my need to see her boss...my insurance company says , nope never got it...bet she'd submit it if I owed them money!!
rose~
We have become a country that looks away when kids do things they shouldn't. I've never had the experince yet of having things charged in my name that I haven't bought. Thank goodness! However, I'm sure my time is coming.
Missie
I saw on the news this morning that two major companies TJ MAX AND BARNES AND NOBLE had their systems penitrated and people overseas were making charges on peoples accounts. That is scary. I'm thinking about going strictly cash and avoiding any hassles. The proplem is that I like the safety of not carrying cash. It seems we are not safe no matter. Hope all is resolved soon for you. I hope they cancelled the card and get another out to you. 'On Ya' - ma
I hear ya on all points...
I married someone who had the "entitlement" mindset. Didn't care who paid for what, as long as he got what he wanted.
He opened several accounts (over the phone and on the internet) in MY name before we were ever married. I still have no idea how he did that, but he did.
I still get bills for things I never bought on accounts I never opened.
Too bad, I'm told. I married him. Even though he used MY name and MY s.s.# before we were married.
Now they are MY debts.
Like you, I don't sleep at night over things like this...
J
Oh Wow! I understand what you mean. Glad that you caught the mistakes. I don't trust the way Wal Mart accepts checks now without even being signed! A lot of things I don't trust anymore. Have a great week. Janie
A while back I had a problem with my ATM card. Chuck NEVER used his for purchases, just money withdrawls. I don't think he knew he could. LOL. I RARELY used my card for purchases. Only if had ran of checks. (Is that anarchronistic or what??) I had to jump thru hoops but got my money back.
So, got a call from the bank that about $5000 in purchases were made. Including a trip to Singapore and electronic equipment. How do these fools get my numbers. The banks will not do anything to press charges, the legal fees are less than what they have stolen.
Claudia
Contact: Free Credit Report.com and they will contact you immediately when someone else charges something on YOUR credit card.
Warm Regards-- and Sleep Better at Night,
Tom Schuckman
tschuckman@aol.com
On Wisconsin !
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