Wednesday, April 5, 2006

Ten good things

Ten good things for this week:

1. I cleared out the demonchild's room to be able to repair and paint. That was not an easy feat!

2. The MiniVampire is done here and won't be back. He did manage to get the last laugh, although it might be because he is European. I swore that he put the laundry tub hoses on backwards, as the rinse water was hotter than it used to be. Then I was trying to clean a paint brush with hot water and it never warmed up. As I was worrying about my hot water heater, it hit me. He put the cold on the left and the hot on the right, in European fashion.

3. I was able to make the second deposit on the condo without having to sell my body or soul.

4. Molly's health has held through all these changes in my home. Pets get upset if you move one chair two inches, so this is a miracle in itself that she has been doing so well.

5. My income tax refunds have come, which might help me get the kitchen cupboard upgrades I want.

6. Spring might make it yet, but we had snow this morning again! I do see buds on my forsythia and lilac bushes, so spring should be coming along, always later than every where else.

7. I am very grateful that I had the foresight to stay in a lousy paying job that just about killed me for so long because I now have medical insurance for life. I knew I wanted that lifetime benefit, but did not realize it would become so valuable.

8. I have some very awesome friends. Two have come to help me out a bit here, and both say they are coming back later this week. Others meet me for lunch and cheer me on. Most of my friends are married women who don't paint at home, as their husbands and/or sons do it for them.

9. The Vampire is keeping my back and shoulders moving enough so I can continue to abuse my body. I see physical therapy in my future again, but I am hoping to forestall it until after I move. I can still walk, after all. Geez.

10. With all this trudging up and down stairs and dragging ladders around, moving furniture in and out of rooms, skipping meals, etc, I have lost all of three pounds. Pitiful, isn't it?

I am afraid that this week's list was difficult to write out - it was not a great week for me. Last night I had a nightmare that involved someone breaking into my new home, and me hiding in a corner with a cell phone, calling for help - and not remembering the name of my new street. Twice in that dream I called for help and wasn't able to get it. Also, a second person was someone I thought I could trust, which led to the second call. I guess I am not feeling a lot of trust going on right now? On a good note, I did get away both times. I had just been nightmare free for a long time. I hope this was an anomaly. My nightmares are graphic and violent, utterly terrifying. I was delighted when I was finally able to end them.

 

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

I would love to see pics of your new house..when you get finished..
best of luck to you!

Anonymous said...

Looking for the good things seems to make the bad things a bit smaller. Like staying at a job you hated, there was a silver lining there.
Look at the nightmares, YOU GOT AWAY! Goes to show you are stronger now than you have ever been.

Anonymous said...

It's great that you can think of ten good things for the week.  We should all do that.
Missie

Anonymous said...

Wow what a week! hope you can get moved soon

Deb

Anonymous said...

Great!! I have not had a nightmare in awhile. Please do show us pictures of the new house.

Anonymous said...

Those nightmares were probably about the minivampire! Since that's done and over with you don't have to worry about it anymore :-)
Glad you were still able to come up with a nice list of ten good things for the week. I love people who look at the positive side of things! Hope the rest of the week is productive. Talk to you more on the weekend. Martha

Anonymous said...

OH OH OH!!!  The mummy wrap came, it came!!!  We are so excited!  People have been coming over to see it! It is SO COOL. Do you know if it was a male or female mummy??

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My husband is pretty possessive of it. He keeps wanting to frame it so the kids won't touch it. Mandy actually slept with it under her pillow last night in case someone broke in the house it would not get stolen.

:-)

Anonymous said...

Nightmares can screw up your whole day! I hope you don't have anymore.
Shadie

Anonymous said...

Great list!  Sure does make you see how important the little things are.  I always have goofy dreams, thankfully not too scary to normal people just to me!  Rose~

Anonymous said...

Nightmares suck. Mine usually involve a gun that won't fire.

No, it's not a metaphor.

Anonymous said...

Weird about the dreams.  Hang in there.  I am here if you need me...just pick up the phone and ring me.

Hugs,
Stacy