Sometimes my students (senior citizens learning computers) get frustrated and want to just give up. I have to cajole them sometimes. Most of you have grown up with computers, but these people are sometimes confronting one for the first time in their lives and are intimidated. The last thing they need is a geek being all techie on them. So I try to make it more fun and more interesting to keep them in the mood to learn something that intimidates them.
It seems to work. Some come up to me after a class is over and ask me what I am teaching next. A shy gentleman who is retaking the class from another instructor came up to me after the first session of this class. "Hello. I am from India. Presentation is everything. You teach a most excellent class." He calls me ma'am. Every day. He doesn't seem to be having a problem in my class, and I doubt he will need to take it again.
One blonde woman is from Germany. She has a heavy accent, and I asked her how long she has been here. She told me that she probably came here before I was born. Her husband was American. This woman, who has been in this country maybe 50 years, is using a German/English dictionary to learn computer terms.
I gently coaxed her to learn the terms in English, reminding her that the terms didn't even exist in German 50 years ago. She was quiet the first lesson, constantly complaining that it was too hard for her. Slowly, with support, she is starting to feel some 'puter power. I always tell them to show the computer no fear. I remind them who is in charge, that they are.
Actually I sat down to write about what I did today. I am finally done with physical therapy. At no time did the PT do a re-evaluation of my progress. He did not ask me if my pain was gone. He just suddenly told me last wee that this week I will "graduate." I don't think my insurance benefits ran out yet, so I am not sure what that was about, but I didn't care. The Vampire managed to give me two massages at work, and he is finally getting some hands-on experience in this country as a therapist.
My doctor agreed to change my sleeping pill to see if it helps my all around exhaustion any. The bad part is, the new one, Lunesta, caused me to get a really nasty taste in my mouth within ten minutes. It is just now starting to go away, 20 hours later. As soon as I take one for tonight, it will be back. Sigh. The doctor had told me that this Rx has virtually no side effects. I believed him so much that I stopped at the local pharmacy and asked for a package insert, and read it all. One third of people get the bad taste, and 20% get headaches. I don't have a headache, but then I never get one from anything.
Perhaps this nasty taste will prove to be a form of miracle diet. I sure don't want to eat much. Nothing tastes right. So far the best description I can come up with is it's like sucking on a tart soapy dime. Ick!
So what did I do today? I had lunch with a former co-worker who has found a new job. She is so excited she almost glows! Anyone who gets out of children's protective services is joyful.
After lunch, I took a drive. I drove some of the back roads of our county. I went around Bald Mountain and the preserves there. I would love to live in that area. Then I came down another similar road, which comes fairly close to where I live now. A deer ran across the road in front of me. It was over 90 degrees out. I drove around probably three dozen lakes; the roads were all winding around each other and the trees were beautiful. It was so peaceful and pleasant. The last time I drove around that area it was to go investigate abused children. This time, it was just me and nature.
10 comments:
I could never teach a class like you do.
I don't have the patience! lol
I'm proud that you do this Susan!
Sorry about the Lunesta. I almost
asked my doc for a script for it. Glad
I didnt. I'll keep my Ambien thank you!
Connie
Ambien does nothing good for me.
xoxo
I can relate to the computer class you are teaching. I tell my 77 year old father he has just enough computer skills to be dangerous. He calls me periodically to help him with something and a week ago I spent almost 45 minutes on the phone with him trying to help him log into a site and view a wedding video. On top of it all he is profoundly hard of hearing even with computerized hearing aids AND he put me on speaker phone so he could type. God bless him! At least he tries! Just wished he wasn't two hours away! I made a trip over that weekend and we had a "class." .... Love your Blog.
My husband was put on a drug years ago (I forget what it was called) that made him completely LOSE his sense of taste! He was miserable...he'd come home from work, smell something delicious cooking, sit down and eat, but was unable to taste anything -- so chicken tasted the same as peanut butter or tuna fish, etc. He quickly became depressed and lost weight (which he didn't need to do), so he had to go off the drug, needless to say.
For some people, that side effect (like yours) WOULD help with weight loss. Unfortunately, sometimes it's the wrong people who experience those effects.
Hope you find some relief soon!
Carol
It can be so furstrating to be older and be freaked out by a computer. I know when I was taking my tests for my CDL...the DMV had changed from paper to computerized tests...this poor old guy was trying so hard to put in his birthday and couldn't figure it out....he kept looking pitifully at his wife who was sitting next to him. I guess you always have to remember that the computer does NOT have a brain, therefore it 'ususally' does what you ask it to do, and can't outsmart you!
Sounds like a lovely road trip, my town is in a HUGE growth spurt so the countryside as I know it is disappearing. very sad...rose
I can't imagine my grandma learning how to use the computer. I would get frustrated trying to teach her I am sure, so kudos to you for having the patience to teach multiple older people at one time.
The drive that you took sounds wonderful.
hugs,
Kathi
Where is your camera?
I put a link to your journal on my journal.
Just thought you might like to know.
Well, you are the right person to help the seniors HAVE NO FEAR! You are very confident . . . YOU KNOW WHAT YOU KNOW!
Man, if you think the Lunesta is bad you ought to taste my little white mystery pills (I put them in my pill-reminder and threw the container away) for hyperthyroidism! Whoa doggies, are those things bitter! When I was 7 or 8 I opened up the pit of a peach and licked the little oblong smooth center . . . anyone who is foolish enough to have done this knows what I'm about to say is true . . . that is the most horrible BITTER taste . . . . this side of these little white mystery pills . . . do you suppose, could it mean that peach pits could cure hyper thyroids??? LOL! Nope. It seems nothing is that simple or that cheap . . . BTW, has anybody noticed that there are plenty of meds to control diseases, but NONE to cure them??? The pharmaceutical companies are ruling our world . . . where is Jonas Salk when you need him??? These little white pills have to be taken for 18 months and they aren't cheap . . . if they don't shrink my thyroid I have to have surgery . . . so the pharmaceutical company gets paid either way! No, I'm not bitter, but the cost of drugs and office visits are a very bitter pill to swallow!
Climbing off my soap box now . . .
I have to admire you. The other day I had a senior call me very frustrated because they wanted to book some travel and were having problems getting around the website. I had to keep reminding myself that this person probably doesn't have much if any real computer experience. It was so darned hard. Then my MIL wanted a lesson - uh no way! I told her her son would be a better person. Anyway, when I was dealing with my senior, I thought about you and all you do. :-) I wonder who will have patience with me when I'm old ... er.
Monica
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