Saturday, November 19, 2005

The Elephant

I have been trying, unsuccessfully, to post this entry. I apologize if you suddenly get ten of them!

Normally I am willing to take a stand on almost anything. I can be decisive and determined and all that. Somehow, this banner ad thing just didn't fire my blood up as much as some. I noticed we get ads on our email, on our entry alerts, and just about every where else. Still, the issue looms on my computer screen like a huge, uninvited elephant, glaring me in the eye and daring me to do something.

I do intend to write some emails to AOL giving my opinion. I do find the ads to be misplaced inside of our journals. While we do not own this space, it *feels* like ours, like it is our private domain and an ad in it is a violation of personal space. It is vaguely like being groped in a crowd, or having someone peek in a window late at night.

Still, this is our community, and I don't want to empower anyone to take that away from us. The community, the friendships, the sharing, those things we developed on our own. Those are ours. No one can put a banner on them. We can't even touch it, it's something deep inside us that is inviolable. For me, that special bond we have transcends banner ads, especially since we can block them.

As an atheist, I will fight for your right to practice your chosen religion. I will also fight for your choice to try to eliminate the banner ads from our journals. I don't know if we can be successful, but I can say it makes me very sad to see people scattering to the winds to other blogs. The sense of community is shedding, and that is so sad.

Just where is this new spellcheck button? I don't seem to have one. Surely, as usual, I made up at least one word. (-and it's not 'inviolable' - which I looked up, since I wasn't sure it was a word but it sounded right to me, and it said no such word. So I looked in the Thesaurusunder untouchable, and found pretty much nothing. So I looked again under something else, maybe sacred, and found inviolable. Odd dictionary system eh?)

 

~~Finally with the help of a few friends I was able to get my journal working again! Probably I will have to go back into this entry and fix the paragraphs, since I had it pasted in Word.

 

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Things are still a mess.  I can't post through AOL....but I can post through Mozilla.

I'm concerned for our community....but we can hold together if we try.  Some of the people who jumped are still commenting here.  Others are not.  They are the ones who appear less committed to the sense of community.  I think through this shakeup, we're going to learn where true friendship lies.

Anonymous said...

Yeah you are back:) I agree with you this whole thing needs to calm down. I am staying not abandoning ship lol by the way how is molly? baby? cat? lol

Deb

Anonymous said...

I am in complete agreement with you.  There is a huge bond in this community, which I am hoping when the dust settles is still alive and well.   At least the group I hold close to my heart seems pretty much willing to fight the battle, but not boycott the cause in the meantime.  The spell check is right next to the camera icon.  If it's not there,it will probably appear at some point. My computer has been really runnng weird since all this updating has been happening.  It's finally running better today!  Have a great weekend!! rose

Anonymous said...

I'm emotionally drained over the issues right now .... yet, I remain hopeful that the glitches and problems and anger and fixes, etc., will soon be FIXED.

A nap does wonders in times like these.

Anonymous said...

Suz,
After much thinking and soul searching I have
decided to stay here too.  I have other people
in my household that use AOL, and they aren't
journalers.  It wouldn't be right for me to take
that away from them.
I'm not happy with the ad's and I've written the
powers that be to tell them so.
I'm sure some people will be angry with me for
not leaving.  I can't help that.
I can only do what's right for me.
Love you!
Connie

Anonymous said...

Still hopeful!
*** Coy ***

Anonymous said...

I just hope they get rid of the ad's. But I will not hold my breath.

Anonymous said...

SO glad your staying!
http://journals.aol.com/shadierush/NeverGiveUp/
Shadie

Anonymous said...

I keep hoping we will wake up one morning, and those ads will have disappeared, leaving us to wonder if we dreamt the whole darn thing, but, like Mary, I won't be holding my breath, either...JAE